BA'T DI KA PA MAWALA?
Lahat naman yata tayo me kaaway. Kung wala kang kaaway, or naging kaaway, or nang-away, wag mo na basahin 'to. Sayang lang oras mo. :P
What is an ENEMY anyway?
ENEMIES are people who don't like you or who you don't like for some reasons (whether it's simple or pretty serious). There are also different kinds of enemies. Anu-ano? Eto:
What is an ENEMY anyway?
ENEMIES are people who don't like you or who you don't like for some reasons (whether it's simple or pretty serious). There are also different kinds of enemies. Anu-ano? Eto:
- FAMOUS ENEMY. Eto ung hindi mo gugustuhin maging enemy. Have you watched the movie Mean Girls? Eh Jawbreaker? Sky High? Princess Diaries? That's what I'm talkin' about. Because your enemy (which is the most popular and the hottest girl or guy in school) doesn't like you that much, no one dares to hang out with you anymore. But here's a fun fact. You will know who your TRUE friends are. They will stick with you around FOREVERRR!
- MUTE ENEMY. Dyuskupooo. Eto yung akala mo pipi at hindi masabi sabi kung anong problema at bakit siya nagalit sa'yo. In fact, nakakaasar siya. How would you say sorry to that person when you don't even know the reason why he or she got mad at you? Watdahell di ba? Pero wala kang magagawa kundi mag-sorry at hintayin na patawarin ka. Not because you don't have a choice. We always have a choice. Sa sitwasyon na 'to, actually merong dalawa. Una, mag-sorry kahit muntanga lang. Pangalawa, taasan mo pride-chicken mo. Aba, ba't ka magsosorry kung alam mong wala kang ginawa? Huli, CONFRONT him/her. Magalit ka din! BUT, as I said before, you won't say sorry because you don't have a choice, BUT because he or she is your FRIEND. Normal naman yun. Pero hindi ee! Kaasar ee! HAHA :))))
- KAAWAY KO NGA BA 'TO? Eto naman yung hindi mo malaman kung kaaway mo o hindi. Dahil sa tagal, nakalimutan mo na kung bakit, pano, or when do you start hating him or her. HAHA :)))))) But hey, it means you can befriends with him or her again, right? Try it. Wala namang mawawala. Pero pag naaalala nia pa, malas mo. Mag-sorry ka na lang. :P
- CREW OF ENEMIES. Paano ka nga ba makikitungo sa gang of enemies? Ang hirap di ba? Mag-isa ka lang, tapos sila lahat kaaway mo. Ganito, una, mag-pray ka. Pray for courage. Tapos, show `em that you're not scared of them. Act naturally. Eventually, maiisip din nila na hindi ka naman pala affected by them. Pero kung binubully ka, hala! Sumbong mo na sa parents, adviser, guidance counselor, principal, prefect of discipline, oh ke lastikman.
- DI NGA AKO GALIT! (Pero galit talaga ako) . Me friend ka bang ganyan? HAHA. Sabi nia di daw siya galit kahit oo. Madalas nangyayari yan. But I do understand them. Why? Coz they're just concerned too much about your friendship. He or she chose to not tell you the truth because maybe, eventually, their ANGER would go away. Eh kung oras oras, minu-minuto mo yan kinukulit na sabihin ung totoo na galit siya, malamang magagalit talaga yon! Hindi na nga pinapalaki tapos ikaw gumaganon. Wag ganon! Okayyy? Give him or her space to think and pawalain ung galit nia.
- FRIEND MO AKO. ENEMY KO SIYA. ENEMY MO NA DIN DAPAT SIYA. Napaka-childish ng ganitong attitude. When a friend of yours is telling you to treat his or her enemy as your enemy too, DON'T!! Why? That person didn't do anything to you then you're gonna hate him/her? That's not fair. Instead, tell your friend that his or her anemy doesn't have to do anything to do with you so LABAS KA NA DUN.
- THE "GUILTY" ENEMY. My enemy (haha, my situation I mean). Actually, I don't treat her as my enemy! Okayy, a guilty enemy, someone who takes jokes seriously and claiming that she's the person you're crackin' a joke to though she's not the one you're pertaining to. (and when you're not really pertaining to anyone coz it is PRACTICALLY a JOKE ONLYYY. ONLY!) Natatawa na lang ako. Coz she's been posting bulletins pertaining to me. *ROFL. Yah right. Can't she see that she's been talking to herself the whole time? HAHA. Kaya yung mga ganyan tinatawanan na lang. I don't hate her. In fact, kasama siya sa prayers ko. I always pray for her narrow-minded brain to be broaden so she'll never ever misunderstood things, especially JOKES. So kung me enemy kayong ganyan katulad ko, pag-pray nio na lang. Act naturally katulad ko. I tend to smile when she's around. Not only to annoy her, but to make her realize that I'm not an ENEMY after all. That she's been making an imaginary enemy out of me.
- FRENEMY. Last kind of enemy. Confused whether that person is your FRIEND or your ENEMY? At some point he or she helps or cares for you. But at the same time, he or she hates you for some reason and talks behind your back. Geez, what should you do? BE CAREFUL. FRENEMIES are so hard to trust. So just be careful on any word you say and share. Besides, you don't need a bunch of "so-called" friends! I think that a few BEST and TRUE friends is enough for every one of us to partyyy and live life!
"Love your enemies. Bless them that curse you. Do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you."
-Matthew 5:44
-Matthew 5:44
Sa totoo lang, mahirap ang may kaaway at iniiwasan. So if you have the chance to make things right, do it. Wag nang patagalin. Wag nang palakihin. Bukod sa "manahimik na lang" para di na lumaki, pwede rin magkaron ng confrontations. So choose.
MAKE PEACE. NOT WAR MEN. B-)
-Tobleronie :)
Thanks T.Gi . XD
Thanks T.Gi . XD
